Lisa Calderone-Stewart writing in US Catholic, May 10, www.uscatholic.org/blog/2010/05/interfaith-dialogue-youth-lifes-end
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I became involved with interfaith dialogue in 2001, after the events of September 11. Locally, the Interfaith Conference of Greater Milwaukee began holding adult dialogues, and over punch and donuts, I met a physician who worked with Muslim teenagers. When he found out I worked with Catholic teenagers, we both had the same idea at the same time. We said to each other in unison, “We should do something like this with young people!”
Our first event was called, “Sons and Daughters of Abraham.” It was an all-day youth forum for Muslims, Catholics, and Jews; it took almost a year of planning. Our team included 18 young people – six from each faith group. Three teenagers acted as the emcees; three teenagers each gave ten-minute presentations (with power point slides) about his or her faith – Islam, Catholicism, and Judaism; and twelve teenagers were table leaders for the participants.
Eventually, there was a call to bring in more faith groups. After a retreat, we began our current program – the Interfaith Youth Cafés. Three or four times a year, a different congregation hosts a café, and teenagers gather, discuss certain conversation questions around a theme, reconvene with their own group, and report about what they learned. At the end, the groups each take a turn saying a prayer for everyone from their own tradition. There’s something about this experience that’s quite transformational. It becomes impossible to hate an entire group of people once you have eaten and laughed and especially prayed with them.
I would dare say it’s the best way to prevent religion-based terrorism. At every café, there seems to be at least one young person who comes for the first time, admits to past prejudice, admits he or she had been so wrong about people of another faith, and is so glad to have learned so much.
(Lisa has recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer)